Kindness

Today, only kindness will leave my lips, even to the people who don’t really deserve it. I know that the people who are rude, bitter, and angry at everything are dealing with their own demons. It doesn’t make what they say or do okay, it just makes it understandable. I shouldn’t judge others if I don’t want them judging me. If you ever feel like saying something rude back, think of something that is kind and clever to make them think about how they are acting. When you stick one finger at someone else there are still three pointing back at you. I think everyone should take a moment in their day to reflect on their actions. How do you think people see you? What could you have done differently? Were you the one in the wrong?

No one is perfect. It is sometimes hard to let things go when a certain person has wronged you. But sometimes saying “I forgive you” isn’t just for the other person to feel better but to make yourself feel better. It just shows you are the bigger person in the situation and you won’t let them effect you. When forgiving someone it doesn’t mean you have to be friends with them again it can just mean you can move on. You can release your heart of sadness, you no longer have to hold on to what is effecting you. Holding things in isn’t always the best thing to do. Believe it or not talking to someone can help more than you know. The reason I am keeping my identity private is so people will feel more comfortable about talking to me about their problems. If you have a problem I have a solution. Stay strong everyone, speak you minds, and don’t be afraid of who you are.

XOXO

A Friend.